I had a younger guy suggest we start dating, after telling me that he wasn't looking for a girlfriend and was just looking for "fun." At the time, I told him I wasn't into "just having fun" and was looking for something serious. About a week later is when he suggested we date. I told him that we could hang out and just see where things went, as I am about to graduate and want what's best for him and for me. He didn't take it so well - or he seemed to at the time - because he would always bring up coming over and then ask me to come to his place, which I don't do because I'm a lady. He would never come to my place. It was just weird and fishy. Eventually, I found out that apparently to him "we were just friends" and he was "okay with that." He got "just friends" from me being concerned about starting something with my leaving and his age? Really? What makes it worse is that we ended on bad terms and have to work together. >:/
Why do some men get upset when you don't want to rush into anything?
What Guys Said 2
The same reason why some women get upset when a guy does want sex. =/1
Because he wanted to fuck you.0
What Girls Said 1
why wouldn't you go over to his place? I prefer going to a guys more because you can leave whenever you want. Its not like you can just run away when you're at your own house. I'd sit down and tell him exactly what you mean. He doesn't understand that in like 4 months you will probably be leaving for school.0
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