What does it mean if you pursue girls who aren't interested and miss opportunities with girls who are interested?

Why does that happen?


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  • Maybe you should give a chance to girls who are interested in you instead of pushing them away. You can´t think square, "oh I like that girl so she must be interested in me". Sorry to say this but you got to think out of the box, maybe a girl who is interested in you might make you be interested in her when you get to know her better.

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    • What if I'm not physically attracted to them

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    • This guy is smart and he's right; you can't focus so hard on physical attractiveness, because when you do, the way you approach people is as superficial as your desire for appearance. Does that mean you date a girl who you find repulsive? No, but give a chance to a "cute" or "average" girl instead of chasing a perfect 10 ... because sorry to tell you pal, but perfect 10 girls get hit on ALL THE TIME and have A LOT of options other than you - so unless you're a perfect 10 ... she'll pass you up.

    • They're not all perfect 10. I look at personality too.

What Girls Said 2

  • ... It means you're pursuing the wrong girl and need to go after people who ARE interested.

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    • You likely aren't picking up on how people feel about you - if you want to know, best thing to do is make your interest known.

    • That's risky.

    • It's not risky, it's forward. You avoid playing mind games and guessing if a girl likes you. My last boyfriend was forward with me (polite but blunt) and it worked for me.

  • That you're not very good at picking up social cues.

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    • How does one get better?

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    • How do you do that?

    • And do you mean alone forever?

What Guys Said 2

  • it means u pursue the wroong girls basically...:-P

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  • It means you an alpha that can only see what he want and not what he need woof woof nigga

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