I'm asking because in most books where the girl ends up seriously lusting after the guy he has a "my way or the highway" attitude.
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I wouldn't want to be with someone who is super controlling, which is the impression I get from a "my way or the highway" attitude.
I do like confident people who know what they want, but at the same time, it's important to be flexible. Not everything in life is going to work out perfectly. You need to be able to roll with the punches.1