I just broke up with my first girlfriend and i am destroyed. MY friends all say that i shouldn't be heartbroken and to man up and get on top of another one, but i love my ex so much. She cheated on me too and i feel like the next girl will so im scared.
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Think of it this way; a part of her is clearly not happy with your relationship and hence why she cheated. That simply means that you're not the right guy for her ya know. I've been cheated on many times, and I actually don't feel any more emotional destruction right after a break up. You and her are simply not right for one another and if you truly care about her, you have to let her go any how. You've got to move on and forget about what could've or shoulda been. Don't blame yourself because in this case, it's really her and not you. Good luck mate.0