So, there is this guy that I have been crushing on for a long time. We always saw each other through friends, so on a whim I asked him out and he agreed. We went out to dinner and a switch must have flipped because he acted TOTALLY different.
He kept talking over me and spent the whole time bitching about his life; I love to listen to people, but the conversation was so negative that it was bumming me out. Any time I spoke he seemed totally uninterested and would quickly change the subject back to him.
If that wasn't bad enough, we ended up arguing before the meal was even done!!
We were sitting there eating and out of no where, he asked me how much I weighed. 2 years ago I suffered from bulimia so I'm sensitive about my weight, so I declined answering him. He said that I was bigger than the girls he normally dated and said if I "toned up" I'd be sexier. I was so upset that I told him he was a nasty person and left. He bitched me out via text saying I was overly sensitive and all of this shit.
A day later he sent me a long, heartfelt message apologizing for how he behaved. He said he has been going through a lot and let it come out on me and he wants a chance to show the "real him." I was so hurt by everything he said that I'm unsure.
Should I give him another chance or was his behavior just too much to forgive?
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Okay girl, no. Dont give this guy another chance. Any man who has the audacity to make you feel inferior and like you should improve in order to please him on the first damn date is bound to be a douche. Okay that was a huge sentence but really you do not want to fall in love with someone who is just into themselves. He may have had a bad night but life is all about up and down. Nothing is constant so ask yourself if the bad is worth the good in him.1