Right after meeting me he told me he liked me right away and he was surprised by it.
We laugh a lot together, he thinks I'm funny and fun. He opened up to me very quickly and said he doesn't know why he did but he felt comfortable doing it.
He has met my family and makes time to see me.
We've made plans and stuff like things we want to do together.
But I feel like he only thinks with one head at a time.
He usually doesn't touch me first, I typically break the touch barrier but he always initiatives the kissing. Once we are laying down and cuddling he is nonstop kissing and groping and all that and its hard to have a real conversation because he's in sex mode or whatever. We've only ever kissed though. We haven't gone further.
But he compliments my body a lot and often says "you're driving me crazy" or "you're frustrating me" when I'm cuddling with him or kissing him. But he has said more than once that he isn't trying to get in my pants right now and that he would want to wait. His actions seem to indicate otherwise but I think he just gets too excited but I can't tell.
One thing he said that rubbed me the wrong way was when I told him "patience young one" when he was waiting for me to get home so I could see him and he said "haha I have to have a ton with you" and this was after the night he'd said he'd wait to have sex with me if we seriously dated.
but usually when we're not horizontal he is more of a gentleman. Seems more interested in me and not my body. He's 17, I'm 18, so could it just be that he can't think with both heads at the same time or is he more interested in sex than in a relationship or what?
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I think you may need to read you own post here. Either way, you need to understand he is a guy and we are two completely different creatures. Women are 'emotionally motivated' creatures where as men are 'physical/visually motivated' creatures. This explains why there are more male architects and more female nurses. Back to what I was saying about reading your own post, you initiate the physical so he assumes you are wanting to be physical at that moment. If you try to kiss and THEN talk, you're going to confuse the whiz out of him. If you want to talk, then talk; if you want to be physical then be physical. This is not to say that he cannot or will never learn to do both but at 17yrs old he is operating on hormones ONLY. Stop watching sappy love movies and pay attention to what is going on right in front of you. Finally, don't expect him to discern or learn via thought reading osmosis. Tell him what you want while you're not kissing and give him the opportunity to learn, adapt, and meet your desires.1