Hi guys just need some advice. I am wondering how to tackle this and loose chances of a good relationship. In the early stages of dating/relationships its always awesome exciting etc, once the I love you has been said and we are boyfriend & girlfriend the excitement is gone and always have doubts if there is any point and the rush is gone.
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Wow. I really hope that doesn't happen with me and my bf. Anyway, what you can do is not spend too much time with him. Just enough. Don't always call him or talk to him online. Have your own life. pick up a new hobbie. Make new friends or reconnect with old ones. You'll have new things to talk about. If you're always talking to him and hanging out with just him then you'll be talking about the same stuff and it'll get really repetitive. Every now and then just make a random plan to do something really special with him. Don't always be the first to take initiative, give him a chance to call you or do things for you too... don't be unavailable all the time either tho.1