So I've been thinking that I want to become more intimate with my boyfriend. I haven't had much experience with the physical aspects of dating and I basically want him to be my "first" if you know what I mean :) We've been together for a year and I trust him more than I've trusted any other guy before. He's broken down my walls and consistently proven that he's trustworthy and willing to wait for me when I'm ready to :) At first I intended on waiting until marriage but I'm nineteen years old and I feel like it's normal for girls my age to experience these things. On the other hand I don't want to regret my decision ten years down the line. Life can be unpredictable and no one knows how long people remain together (regardless of how well things are going right now). I guess I'm just wondering if you regretted your first time or if it was what you hoped it would be? Do you think it's a good idea to wait until marriage?
Please be diplomatic because I'm already confused enough as it is, lol :) Thanks for your insight!!
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Well, in my opinion, marriage is just false security, as if things don't work out, you'll just divorce, so linking the pact to "legality" of sexual activity is somewhat unnecessary. I think you should do what you think is right when it feels right, rather than bind it to bureaucracy.0