Most common stereotypes that the vast majority of you ladies jump to the conclusion to:
Mama's Boy = Needy, Dependent weak beta male who relies on mommy too much.
A man who hates his mother/poor relationship = Future misogynist, rapist, serial killer and/or woman beater.
While I'm absolutely neither of these stereotypes, I'll admit, I am a mama's boy but I never once let my mother micromanage anything in my whole life. She's been very protective of me up til this very day but she absolutely does not mind that I have another woman that I love in my life as long as she treats me right and makes me happy. My mom does not spoil me or any of that crap. I work and pay most of my own bills and college tuition. She'll occasionally lend me some money if I ran out of my paycheck for spending it all on my bills. That's about it.
- Mama's BoyVote A
- Man who has poor relationhip with motherVote B
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In my experience, no good comes from a man who is up is mother's ass because he will always side with her and if she doesn't like you for whatever reason, you better believe she will influence is decision in the end if it means family tension. Unless he's a really head strong and independent guy. My guy for 10.5 years let is 20 year older than him sister call all the shots. Even when I had to take him to court for hitting me and trying to get access to our home so I can move my stuff out (since we can't be together in the same place if I have a restraining order against him) which was also in *her* name, she drove him to every court hearing and was trying to call all the shots with the lawyers and it was none of her business, saying I was crazy, etc. He was/is clearly a psycho and did me wrong but a la familia, they'd never go against him even if he was lying. My sister's second husband was eerily close to his mother and she broke *them* up. She talked him into leaving her before telling him to get an order against her to keep her out of the house he and my sister bought together. So yeah. Proceed with caution when it comes to jealous, vindictive, mothers and protecting their baby boys.0