we have an on/off relationship. whenever we get close again for a while things are great and then he just breaks all form of contact out of nowhere. and if i contact him he doesn't call back or text back. if he does say anything regarding his disappearance he will say he's frustrated. but doesn't provide any more detail.
Why does he do this? Any other guys do this?
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Sounds like he's just using you to get his rocks off and when he's done for a while, he goes back into the wilderness to hibernate or fling with someone else.
To me, you have an off again relationship that should just stay off. I'd even recommend you cut the power completely, since all your'e going to do is get together with him when he calls, buy his bullshit stories about why he was so distant and then discover he's off and away, giving you many days of silence.
Do you really want that in a relationship? I hope not.
But to answer your other question, both guys and girls do it, and unfortunately it's pretty common.2