There is a guy I saw at my university that I find really attractive. I want to get to know him. But he doesn't know I exist. I don't know what to say to him. I'm afraid of rejection and he's so attractive to me and that intimidates me a little bit. I get nervous when I think about even saying hi to him. But I want to say something to him. I don't want my fear to keep me from taking a chance. We could end up being good friends. What can I say to him?
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as easy as this is to say on here, I'd suggest saying "Hello, how are you?" then after he says good or what ever his answer is introduce yourself. rejection is a very nerve racking thing, I know this all too well. We are ALL afraid of rejection so don't feel alone in that aspect. just introduce yourself and go from there :) I know my advice seems probably pretty standard, but its really the best thing I feel you can do in this situation. just don't let your fear control you (another thing easier said than done).0
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