Guys, so I am 18 and I have gone on three dates with one of my guy friends (he specified they were dates and paid and everything) but he hasn't really made a move or tried to kiss me on any of the dates.. I think he likes me still since he asked me out again and to prom but I can't tell.. Do you think he is just to shy, or just doesn't know how to tell me he doesn't like me like that?
If you think he is too shy do you have any tips on how I can let him know I want to kiss him?
- He is too shyVote A
- He doesn't like me more than a friendVote B
Most Helpful Guy
No, these young punks on here have it wrong. He really digs you but he is all eat up with shy. You can encourage him but, when it happens, it needs to be something that he initiated. You want that kiss but you also want to build his confidence so that he will become more assertive.
Next date, tell him your fingers are a little cold and ask him if he'll hold your hand. End of the date: he walks you to your front door (and if he doesn't automatically do this, you suggest it.) "I had a wonderful time, blah, blah, blah," and then you move in like your gonna kiss him but instead you give him a very affectionate hug tight arms around his torso. Then you move your head back, keep your arms around him, you look him in the eye and give him your most seductive "come hither" look, you turn your head like you're getting ready to kiss, you move in slightly , , , and you stop. Wait for him to close the distance; if he hesitates, you can prompt him with your hands on his back pulling him towards you. When it's over, say, "Wow. I can feel my heart beating. I hope there's a whole lot more of those wherever that came from."
The idea is, when it's all over, you want him to say that he kissed you, not that you kissed him. This will give him the idea to become a little bit more assertive with the romance.
I would appreciate receiving an update on how this worked if you decide to try it. I will also be expecting an invitation to the wedding!2
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