I was planning on giving my unavailable older guy friend a love/goodbye letter today since he's leaving town, but failed.
He started talking about giving me his grand piano (his best friend) before he leaves, and I felt like if I gave him the letter today he may feel uncomfortable and change his mind and even stop talking to me completely. So, I freaked out and couldn't give him the letter... I really want his piano since it's something that means a lot to him... But I also want him to know how I feel before he leaves.
The next time I see him is the day after tomorrow. Should I give him the letter and possibly give up both the piano and our friendship OR give up confessing my feelings and stay as close as we are as well as getting his gift - piano?
- Give the love letter and possibly give up the piano + our friendshipVote A
- Burn the letter, keep things as they are, and get his piano - although we could lose touch after he leaves...Vote B
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If he is married then that's a hell of a gift to be giving you. If your feelings for him are romantic and he's married, probably not a good idea to tell him.1