Long story short I met my perfect guy online. We met in person everything went perfect and he even kissed me goodbye. A week later we met he stopped talking, then he told me he has a gf who gets jealous so he can no longer date me. A week later I notice he is still on his profile. Messaged him from a friend's account and he told the girl he wants a relationship and that the girls he's met haven't been serious and most weren't as cute as this girl. I just want to win him back? How can I show him I can get prettier? Like I will do anything! I'm going to the gym and dieting cause I know I'm fat and I'm saving money for plastic surgery how do I get him back cause I honestly loved him he was perfect I don't want anyone else
I'm so sad I just want to fix this?
What Guys Said 4
Uhmmmm. You are in a mess hunny.
I would not date this guy. If he has a girlfriend and is going on dating websites to find other people, clearly he's not all that. You seem infatuated and clearly overlooking this glaring, and rather destructive flaw.
Even if the girl isn't his GF, or whatever, he has to CHOOSE you. If he's not choosing you, then he obviously doesn't want you. That's kind of common sense, no?
Lastly. Great you are going to the gym and dieting! Terrible that you are doing it for someone else. You should be doing those things FOR YOURSELF. You change yourself FOR YOU. Doing it for someone else is never a good thing, regardless of what it is. And plastic surgery? Just no. Think about it this way, if a guy needs you to be cut op and to have shit stuck in you, to consider dating you, is that SERIOUSLY someone you want to be with?0
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Why would you want to get prettier when you're already beautiful enough as it is naturally. I think enhancements, plastic surgery, tattoos, piercing, etc... are all a mistake. I prefer people in their natural state and in addition, you deserve a guy who appreciates you, respects you and love you for who you are, and not a guy that dates you because you somehow change your face and got an enhancements. You'll find the right guy sooner or later.0
Why do you want him? What positive quality outside of his looks does he have. Because you have just described him as a loser...0
What Girls Said 4
Don't waste any more time or energy on this guy. He's already shown you he is dishonest. If he lies to you about having a girlfriend he would lie to someone else about not having one.
If you feel you need to hit the gym and lose some weight, then go for it. Do it for yourself not some dream guy who isn't into you for whatever reason. He just sounds too shallow t o even bother with. Hitting the gym will help change both your attitude about yourself and your body. Don't worry you'll find the right guy.0
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Doesn't he have a girlfriend? Wtf
And you're gonna get plastic surgery to be with a douche like that? What the fuck is wrong with you?1
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