So my crush overheard me talking to one of my friends about how I wanted to date this other chick but I clarified I wasn't a lesbian cause I go both ways sort of (not sure how much he heard probs not a lot and I don't thing he has a problem with it)
After that he started treating me more like a friend I guess. His name is sebastian so I told him this story about how when I was 5 my neighbors used have a dog named sebastian and how I hated the name so I called it ruffalando instead of sebastian. He just laughed at my story and I told him I would start calling him ruffalando instead of Sebastian cause he looks like one and he was like 'nooooo no I don't"
Me:u need a nickname
Me: that's a horrible nickname! what about bassy or sebby?
S:those are terrible!!
Me: what about sebastard?
S: are u calling me a bastard?
Me: not literally its just funny:3
Aaaaand I feel like he went from being slightly nervouse arund me to treating me more like just a friend" help me what to do !!!( he drove me home once and stares at me when I'm it looking but I feel like I ruined my chances with this nickname convo!!
he also asked if I resented letting him drive me home which I thought was weird but he was smiling when he said It)
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WOW. Huge turnoff to be compared to a dog, this conversation should've been done maybe 2 months after you guys were together. Now he thinks that he is in the friend zone basically, and he ain't got a chance with you since you don't even like his name. He's smart, keeping his distance i'm guessing. He doesn't want to be the guy who is trying so hard, that's in case he likes you back.
what you should do is explain to him that what you said was a stupid mistake, and it doesn't mean that you don't like him.0