Ok so normally girls that are single want a guy thats nice, loyal romantic, im all those but im still single. I dont drive so i dont have the opportunity to go different places and meet women. I bike everywhere but still it seems more often then not i fall into the friendzone which is hard because i can't bend on my morals and how i treat women
Am I different then what I describe myself as?
What Girls Said 1
When you go biking and she someone you may be interested in ask from their number and if they would like to go out on a date. Then they'll know your interested and might not friend zone you. You may be how you are but, some girls might not be able to tell if you never hit one up.0
What Guys Said 5
I know this might sound a little rough but being the bare minimum of what someone wants when you're applying for a position isn't really enticing.
"I want someone who won't beat me, won't lie to me, and will have common decency."
"And is fun, funny, enjoys long walks on the beach, and even longer hot fuck sessions."
Not so given.1
"i can't bend on my morals" <--- that's a type og guy that most girls like... really0
What we think we are, sometimes isn't the case as we're biased towards ourselves and mislead by what we WANT to be. People looking at you might not see what you think you are, and you might not be what you think you're presenting.
On top of this, people being asked to describe what attracts them usually doesn't end up being very accurate. Attraction and logic/reason don't really go well together. Attraction just... happens. You can't put it into words very accurately and when you do, you start listing out more of a fantasy than what really grabs you.
And with you in particular, I've seen your posts and you seem to have a bit of a problem with insecurity and desperation in finding a girlfriend. This leads to very forced, unnatural behavior. So I'd almost bet money that what YOU see as nice, loyal, and romantic... really aren't.0
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