I've been thinking a lot about myself, who I am, who my friends are... and, I'm starting to feel like, what if no girl is good for me? Recently I've done an introspective, for most of my life I've been ignored and alienated by other kids, and it messed me up pretty bad. I became a class clown to try and gain attention, and attention that wasn't just insults, and eventually developed a superiority complex so I wouldn't have to accept how alone I felt. Now, the girl I currently like, is pretty popular, and, I'm starting to think, maybe that means she's just not right for me... Girls tend to be stuck up and shallow as is, at least in high school, especially popular girls... She and her group ignored my best friend and made him feel like nothing... Basically, we're all the same group of "friends" we're all in a club together, and, while they treat each other like family, the other members that is, people like me and my friend, it's like we're invisible, like we're nobody. I'm used to it happening all throughout my life, so it doesn't bother me that badly, after I went on my little self-journey thing, but I'm angry that my friend has to go through what I did, it's almost unforgivable for me... what can I do? Maybe I'm wrong about her, I'm just saying all this because she's popular in the club, should I just give up on her, and dating in general? Getting past my constant rejection, it really just seems like no girl is a good fit for me, now that I've given up much of my anger, I'm my old self again, compassionate, the guy that wanted to change the world, I don't know anymore.
Is no girl right for me?
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Probably not. There are 7+ billion people on this planet. A couple fails is nothing. Work on being someone you happy with. When you meet her, you’ll have no doubts.0
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