Guys, why do you test the waters with a girl you like?

I am wondering why do guys test the waters with a girl they u like when they are likely to make her upset? For example, asking a girl you have been dating for almost a year what does she think about open relationships? Do you ask questions to see how she would react? Do you ask certain questions to feel secure? FYI... men ask or test waters before a commitment... why?


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  • For me it's because we want to know if the girl will really stick with us or not. I know for me I like to test the waters because i don't want to get in a relationship with a girl where she will just break my heart. I want to know that she is committed to and that she will stay.


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  • yeh... it's a good way basically 2 have an image about her preferences/ideals i believe...;-)