I just want to know what all you guys think.
I am single (story of my life), and I live at home with my parents. I am turning 27 soon.
I have means to move out but the thing is, if I do, that is a huge offence that would cause disownment. I care for my family very much and I don't want to live my life with my parents disowning me.
I live at home yet I do not mooch off my parents. I pay for all the bills that come in and I take care of the groceries. I paid for the household appliances and the new carpet installed. I cook, clean, do every chore in the house. With all of that, I spoil my parents with expensive, beautiful things as well.
So say you are interested in me and found out that I do this and live at home. Would you STILL think I am pathetic? I mean, isn't it better than shoving your parents in a home?
Why do the majority of the population think this is pathe
Would you still date me/ marry me/ defacto with me.
- I would definitely be with you forever77% (23)
- No.23% (7)
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Why would this cause disownment? If anything, you are just trying to live your own life. This isn't to say that you can't visit your folks regularly. It just means that you want a life of your own, and you should be allowed to. I don't know, but it seems like your folks may be talking advantage of you, both physically and mentally. If this is the case, then you need to talk a stand by moving out. Can't your folks live on their own? It sounds like they need extra special care, and that's why you live at home. If this is the case, then I would find that real sweet, not pathetic. Hell, it's probably bound to happen to my folks, too. Those that think it's pathetic probably don't have a heart - or at least a good one.0