I have really started to like him. He told me he thinks I'm a cool girl to hangout with and that we hit it off when I asked him what he thinks of me. We have been out on a few dates, been hanging out, hooking up and talking for almost four months now. But the problem we have been far away from eachother from the start because I'm away at school, about two hours away, but now I'm moving back to the city so we'll be close. He told me a week ago he missed having me in town. I saw him a last weekend when we hung out with a group of friends, I said I would cab home but he offered to drive me home, and kissed me twice on the way home. I honestly dont know what he thinks. We talk a few times a week not everyday. We also drunk text/ call, equally as much. He gets very hot and cold. hasn't asked me to hangout, eventhough I drop major hints... at this point I just dont want to get hurt.. should I just give up on him? what to do? I feel like he's not making an effort really anymore. I don't know if its because of the distance, but still I think he could have made an effort. In the begining he was persistent, asked me out on a date. Even when we text, Im usually the first one to text him and ask how he is doing. Whats his deal, should I just give up and stop trying? I would want to keep hanging out and seeing where things could go.. but at this point it seems its casual from his end?
From his actions, how does it seem he feels about me? What to do?
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You have a 50/50 chance is shy and isn't initiating contact or the start of the relationship. Or he likes you for what it is a friendlationship. He might not want to feel "tied" down. You can ask him out he might say yes or no. Or you can say nothing and live the rest of your life never knowing.0
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