I'm curious. If you met a guy in a class or around campus, and he thought you were cute and wanted to take you out on a date. Would you prefer him to be direct that he wants to take you out on a date, or be subtle, in the sense that he would say hey, make small talk, get to know you a little bit, and then ask you out?
Girls, do you prefer a guy to be direct or subtle?
What Girls Said 4
Subtle... i hate it when guys ask me out straight away before i even get a chance to get to know him... it's a turn off and scares me away, direct guys are scary in general because they have the nerve to get annoyed and butt hurt after but they don't know me... they just judged me simply on the way i look... i'm certainly not going to date a guy who judges a book by it's cover and thinks he knows me before hand... direct just seems like a senseless way to me.1
I prefer a guy being direct.1
Direct. Games are so annoying.1
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