Boys and girls of all ages, come tell us what you wish. What do you wish the other gender would do more of and less of?
Most Helpful Guy
I wish more girls would take the initiative and start conversations with guys, break the ice, even if it is small talk, heck, even approach them, make the first move, and ask them out on first dates, because since I have Asperger Syndrome, my social skills, conversation skills or flirting skills are extremely below average, that is why I have never had a girlfriend, or has to be the main reason why I've never had one, always been single. I struggle to tell and sense if a girl is just being nice and friendly to me, or if she actually likes me, like I can't tell if a girl just see's me as just a friend only, or a potential boyfriend. Reading body language and non-verbal social cues is very tough for me, but I know it's the Societal norm, it's tradition that it has always been up to the guy to take the initiative in the dating/relationship scene, like us guys taking the lead. Even if girls refuse to do the first move or initiating that I mentioned, the at least they could do is blatantly be honest with the guy and tell him straight in his face that they are interested or not interested. As for what I wish girls would stop doing, I wish they would stop teasing and leading guys on all the time, playing mind games with them, giving them mixed signs or messages, like this has happend to me, I have asked girls for their phone numbers before, and they were real numbers, but then I found out they had a boyfriend, why the hell would they give out their phone number if they have a boyfriend already and they know they can't see other guys because their boyfriend would get jealous? that is so f***in' retarded and stupid, I f***in' hate girls that give out their numbers like that.0