I'm a brown girl who is a brunette... its fine that he may have a preference but what bothers me so much is that he pays a lot of attention to them like they are special and give them certain complements that makes me feel unappreciated or that they are most beautiful him...
i asked if he thought these girls were prettier to him he said some are :(
he comments on girls pics telling them they are attractive and hot which hurts more... i feel so plain next to his fantasy and preference... I don't know what to do or to feel?
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"i asked if he thought these girls were prettier to him he said some are
he comments on girls pics telling them they are attractive and hot which hurts more"
Wow. What an insensitive jerk.
I mean, it's fine to find other people attractive, but to straight up tell you to your face that he finds other girls prettier and to comment on their pics like that? That is going way too far,
and it's incredibly disrespectful (not to mention hurtful, I imagine).
To answer your question, your reaction is totally appropriate. If it were me, I'd sit him down and have a serious conversation about how this isn't working for you and needs to change.4