My boyfriend and i are in a long distance we've been together for 10 mnths and last weekend he went to this festival called stagecoach and he met this girl named Allison and well we call at night and sleep together on the phone and he kept getting texts so i asked him who was texting him this late ad he said it was Allison, i kept hearing the keyboard typing and got annoyed so i just hung up. And he texted me min later saying why i hung up and i told him the texting bothered me and all he replied was " ok night" he is mad i think? Was it wrong to end the call cause it was really bothering me.
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It wasn't wrong to end the call if it was bothering you. Honestly, I probably would have done the same thing. Its an impulsive thing (to hang up on someone) we can't really help, especially when our emotions are involved. Although, I think we'd see better outcomes to things we do if first consider possible end results our actions might be enabling and then act according to the results we'd like to have (rather than do something impulsively which could result in an outcome we didn't intend). For instance, you hanging up on him really only gave him more of an opportunity to then communicate with Allison, and is most likely why you got the "ok night" response from him.0