Is it bad to be too available?

I am in a new relationship with a girl I am friends with and we are starting to get involved in a romantic relationship together. She asked me when we can hang out next, is it bad to tell her whenever she would like? does it seem bad to be to availible?

  • Yes this is bad
    36% (4)60% (3)44% (7)Vote
  • No, you are stupid
    64% (7)40% (2)56% (9)Vote
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Updates:
Clearly I must have not in a moment of clarity while asking this question! The majority of you seem to believe it's a good idea to be available, thank you all for your answers and support.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • No, she will like that.

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What Girls Said 4

  • Oh noes... you're making time for someone you like... that's awful... she'll think you like LIKE her at this rate.

    Silly! Of course she'll like the chance to see more of you!

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  • Playing hard to get is a woman's job. Women like to be chased and adored, if she likes you, do not play it cool. Make her feel special.

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  • DUDE SHE'D FREAKING LOVE THAT! (lol next day..."wanna go to..___ with me?")

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  • Being available when needed is pretty good. But being available all the time will make you seem weak. Learn to say no when you think it's unnecessary to say yes.

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    • well if she asking me to hang out and it is at the start of relationship, don't you think it could be bad to seem too busy? potentially as if I don't have time for a relationship?

    • Try testing her once. Is she available for you when you need her or when you wanna hang out with her?

What Guys Said 1

  • Girls will always disagree, but it really does help to have a solid life and not be open every single time she wants to hang out. Any time I hang out with a girl too much too early, they back off. When I keep it to maybe once a week and have to turn them down here or there, they are far more interested.

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