What should you never ask on a first date?

What questions, no matter how much you want to know, should you never ask on a first date?

What questions have blown up on you?


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  • Shall we split?
    As a guy I can't because of stupid gender roles.

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    • I have forgot to mention one more obviously I don't ask because I love to be a gently man

    • As a rule of thumb I always do that on the date. If girl loses interest becouse of that she wasn't worth the hassle on the first place. If she requires payment for her attention it's halfway to prostitution. If I decided to pay for female attention might as well go all the way and pay an escort...

    • Yeah, when guy takeing care of her then she has to offer it in other way like helping him in work and cooking for him that was really so romantic if a girl cook for me wow that was damn sexy to me @Bubblesi

What Guys Said 15

  • You should not ask about past relationships, unless your date has already offered some information about previous women.

    You should not ask anything that will make him think he is being evaluated for marriage potential.

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  • I don't think there are any standard questions though a lot of books, websites etc propagate quite a few

    www.yourtango.com/.../what-not-ask

    www.eharmony.com/.../#.VUNwxdKqqko

    While they aren't wrong there aren't any hard and fast rules on these. Basic etiquette is good and being non invasive or crude goes great.

    Leave alone first date, there are certain questions best not asked (depending on individual to individual) for a lifetime :)

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  • Never ask if she has been in or wants to be in a threesome.

    I may have asked a girl how much she weighs. Also a bad question.

    Sometimes guys are dumb

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  • "how many hotdogs can you eat in 1 sitting?"

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  • Lol never been asked anything weird to be honest not by people on first dates anyway. I am pretty much an open book I mean you can ask me anything and I will always answer truthfully, the answer itself will half the time be indirect and almost philosophical in the way I respond.

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  • "Do you know what a "German butterfly" is?

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  • I have not made any list but I unintentionally tend to offend people.

    Like sometimes I wish i was little diplomatic but at the end of day i am happy with my brutal honesty, life and my self that's what matter's most ( without intentionally hurting some one).

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    • ok, so what are things you've asked on a first date, that upset them?

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    • Did you ever find out what was wrong with her lips?

    • that was our first and last date.
      i don't know really.
      Coz earlier i had seen her normal and beautiful and lips were normal as well.

  • Ask about sexual history or orientation.

    I've had a gal say she was bi- on a first "outing" before.

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  • I say anything regarding to sexual history... that's private stuff! ;-)

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  • Do you have an std? That's a perfectly valid question but a 99% chance they will get offended in some way.

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  • Can I try the donkey punch on you?

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  • I can be asked anything on a first date. I'm that open minded.

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    • This is how I feel as well.

      But it was asked on the radio and got me wondering.

    • I could be asked about sex, politics, spirituality... literally anything. I wouldn't be phased. (Albeit if she asked me about sex then she should be expecting some highly raunchy shit.~)

  • ever been tongue punched by a Korean man in your fartbox?

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  • lying basically. to show off.

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  • Girls should never ask, how much a guy makes.
    Guys should never ask how many guys she's been with.

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What Girls Said 4

  • u can literally ask me anything except stupid ass things like:

    what's your bra size?

    do you like my body?

    do you think i'd be husband material?

    [yes iv been asked these] fricken turn offs and i dont answer.

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  • Don't ask/talk about exes on the first date.

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  • "What does your dick look like?"

    ((god I hope it's not ugly if we get that far))

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  • never ask about past relationships.

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