I know he is an introvert... he dont like to show his feelings. When we are together he enjoy when we are both quiet most of the time. Like I pour out my heart... he doesn't talk about his feelings he just let me hear a love song he dedicated to me. He hugs me and kisses me. But when ever I want to talk about my feelings he doesn't want to hear. Do guys think its feminine or its unmanly? When ever we have an disagreement he ignores me and I have to talk to him first. He acts like a baby. Im done pouring out my heart... He says he really cares. But he just dont like to express his emotions... is this normal? he's 10 years older than me.
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There's a fine line between pouring your heart and nagging.
If all that he percieves is complaining, this could be why he's clamming up.
And it's important to understand, that all the way through a mans life, he is basically taught that having emotions isn't a man thing.
Through childhood, if they get hurt - Big boys don't cry.
Through youth , taking abuse from both boys and girls - Suck it up; take it like a man.
Through adolescence - Grow a pair of balls
etc . etc . etc .
And this is just piled on guys, layer on layer on layer, one after another - and it never stops.
At some point, a lot of guys will cut through the bullshit, and learn to open up, but not everybody will, or can.0