Do you agree with the question title? Because I know plenty of women will tell guys ( That they KNOW they don't find attractive to them) that they aren't ugly and don't try to say its because of their confidence and/or personality that women don't like them because when a guy first approaches a woman, she is only concerned with his looks. Looks first and then if guys pass the looks test THEN personality and confidence.
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Looks are pretty important and I say this as a mediocre looking guy who got his confidence torn down on here by girls. But very few people in the world actually look that bad and most people have a decent appearance enough to get them somewhere I believe.0