So I hate myself and I'm so frustrated with myself and my life. Everytime I talk to a guy or hang out with them I fall for them and I think each time he will be my first boyfriend but everytime I scare them away. I try so hard not to be clingy or too easy but I just want nothing more than to be someone's girlfriend. I feel so bad about myself it's embarrassing I'm 20 and I'm the only one I know who has never had a real boyfriend. I know I'm fat and ugly I just repel guys and I'm so sick of it they are into me for maybe a month a little less then they disappear I am so sick of being such a defect. I just don't know what to do differently I go to the gym cause I know I'm fat. I just don't know how to keep a guy I guess as dumb as that sounds. I need a life cpach I just want to be a whole new person
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Your not alone, i'm in the same boat literally the same boat, my longest relationship was 3 months before she just couldn't take the separation from her ex, there's nothing wrong with me at all she says, she does love me but she just loves him more, okay were friends because she's a real nice gal but i ask myself why? why does this happen I've been cheated on and rejected for some silly reasons, okay they might not be silly to the girl, i fall for people too quick too i always get attached not to overbearing or anything i just feel a connection to people, and this has always ended up going bad for me, i don't want a girlfriend for the status, or to say i have a girlfriend, to me its someone i can confide in and just feel that little bit more wanted.
And from that picture in no way are you fat :)
Just look up and don't give up, put your energy into other things and stay positive, your not worthless or defective just as i am not, we're just unique people in a world gone mad where no one can trust anyone as easily as they used to, you seem an okay person to me and you just need to take your time and not over think with these guys, just discuss thing and be nice i wish you the best of luck any questions or extra context i'd be happy to help :)0
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