We have been dating for 5 years. Both are waiting until marriage (even though he did *stuff* when he was 17)
We don't kiss because in the past that has made it harder to *wait*
But its been over 2 years and he has not tried to kiss me... he sticks to me like glue but I fear there is no longer any attraction for me as he may see me more as a friend. I don't get the impression that he desires me but he say's he wants to marry me. I love him but I thought by this time their should have been a lot more sexual tension.
Could this be the result of a guy with low testosterone...
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Hmm. First, I compliment in the highest for waiting! I have a friend, who, along with his bride, enjoyed their first kiss on the altar! Something I always dreamed of. Having said that, because it is so difficult for the guy especially, I believe in relatively short engagements. Making him wait five years seems like a rigorous exercise in endurance and torture. But, why is there not sexual tension there now? That's a good question. It could be that he has simply lost interest. That would be my first guess. I would ask if there was any chance he was getting any on the side (just asking). Low testosterone at your age is quite unlikely, actually. I wish I had better advice. In any case, God bless you and your marriage!0
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