im relatively good looking 7-8 on a normal day, dress nice, treat people well, funny, im in great shape, make good grades in college have a job and soon for a car. but it seems only big girls like me... i know some people like them but im not one of them. i dont mean a little chubby or has a bit of a gut but just.. huge. i try to talk to girls but most dont seem to be interested for whatever reason or if they are they flake off. no im not cocky or anything im a pretty nice guy but still i can't help but wonder
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Looks are subjective... Some girls may think you're a 8 while other girls may think you're a 4. Maybe your looks come off as a person that they wouldn't mind admiring what you have to offer physically, but personally, you do nothing for them in regards to catching their interest as more than eye candy.
There are some girls that I think are hot and some guys think are below average. And vice versa. There are some girls that see me and think eh... he's kind of ugly.. not that attractive (even girls that I think are ugly and not attractive), while other girls think I'm really cute/handsome. Granted, I've never had a problem with catching the interest of hot athletic girls.
There is 2 things. Either 1, there is clearly something about you that drives away the non-fat girls and attracts the fat girls.. or 2... there are non-fat girls that find you attractive and are interested in you, but they don't let it be known. They may even show that they're not interested to see if you're actually interested in them vs someone that just flirts and tries to hook up with any girl.0