Girls, For the overweight women? Do you have lower standards for men because you are overweight? Would you date a man who was as heavy as you? Also would you date a man with a full six pack and very toned muscles? If so, would you feel that he is better than you?
- YesVote A
- NoVote B
Most Helpful Girl
I couldnt really say yes or no because the questions were too different.
That being said, I am currently a little overweight. I wasn't overweight when I met my boyfriend. He seems to still love me for me. I also think, I am overweight in my eyes because I am usually more thin. But, a lot of people including my doctor say I am healthy. I am tall though so this may be why. It does suck though and I really do feel weird going out in public because I feel so self conscious about my weight.
At your questions though--> When I am like this and I were single, I wouldn't look for any guy to date. I just don't feel secure enough to think a guy would like me and I don't want to put him through that if he did like me. I would focus on myself and try to get better as I am. Though, if it were impossible and I wanted to date... then I would date whoever I found attractive and vice versa. I don't "lower" my standards and etc. though, many women do... and in the past I have stayed with a man because I didn't think I was good enough to get another--he treated me bad. I have learned from this though. No woman should lower her standards0