Would you consider it cheating if your boyfriend/girlfriend danced with another girl/guy when you weren't around?

Maybe not cheating but crossing a line?
My take on this would be dont do anything you would do in front of your significant other.
Am i wrong on this? I welcome all opinions, no right or wrong answer!

Updates:
Edit-I meant to say dont do anything you "wouldn't" do in front of your significant other.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I don't think dancing is considered cheating.

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    • Do you feel like it crosses a line? Or would you be okay if he (or she) danced with other people?

    • I really would be okay with it. There needs to be some freedom even if you are in a relationship, and I really don't think simple dancing is disrespectful to me, it's not like he was making out with her.

What Guys Said 5

  • not cheating, but crossing the line depends on the couple together.

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  • hahaha no... dancing doesn't equalize cheatin ^_^

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  • Cheating is doing something your partner wouldn't approve. For some dancing can be therefore cheating. For me and my girlfriend it's not even close though :)

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  • It's not cheating but it is something I would be ok with.

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  • It's one thing if he is there to keep an eye on things, but, otherwise, not appropriate.

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What Girls Said 6

  • Ehhh. I mean I wouldn't be happy about it, but it really depends on the scenario. As long as it didn't cross any lines into inappropriate touching/kissing, and no number exchanging, then whatever. I'd just prefer not to know about it.

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  • I would be a little bothered by it depending on the situation. If it was just an obligation thing like a wedding and he agreed to dance with a girl because she had no one else, I wouldn't mind. If he's bumping and grinding, I would be a bit upset but I wouldn't consider it "cheating", but it would be a betrayal.

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  • Casual dancing? Nope. I wouldn't care. Intimate/grinding type of dancing... urhm yeah I'd mind !

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  • I am fine with it. As long as they are strait with me about what when on, we are good. I would prefer them to not make out. definitely not if I am unaware of it. But them going out dancing or to a movie etc . thous are things you do with a friend or new acquaintance, it becomes extra a special when with a significant other.

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  • two wrongs don't make a right...

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    • Could you elaborate? Im not quite sure i understand your answer.

    • it's not cheating...
      if they're like dating and going out to clubs and dancing.. maybe thats cheating...
      but if they just dance like at a school dance or something... not cheating...

  • It isn't cheating, but it IS crossing a line, and would make me uncomfortable and suspicious

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