Would you date someone who is 45 and financially unstable?

Same as title, and has a good heart?

  • Yes
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  • No
    43% (9)57% (12)50% (21)Vote
  • You crazy he's old and broke
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  • . uch depends on whether this instability is temporary or his 'normal" way of living.

    A normal man should be stable at that age.

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    • That's what I was thinking, but I didn't wanna judge

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    • Then you should really wonder which kind of bad decisions got him in that situation (unless he's sustaining some parent or has medical bills, of course.)

    • Ok, ima have to figure it out.

What Guys Said 8

  • So basically Petunia (on the right)

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    No, I would not.

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  • So long as someone doesn't expect me to support them or pay their bills, I don't care how much they make. I wouldn't date a 45 year old woman at my age though...

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  • I'm 20, that'd just be weird.

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  • Define "financially unstable", that term seems to vary wildly between people.

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    • Um behind on bills, getting over drafts, and never having spending money

    • Sounds more like he's bad with money/finances. I know people that make about six-figures and go through this every month. I don't know... at his age he should be in a little better of a place. Yeah, i would. It's hard finding decent/kind people that you're attracted to.

    • Ya your right, I just hope he get his situation together

  • Depends how much you value his financial stability and how stable yours is.

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    • It don't matter to me, but he is constantly stressed about money

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    • So maybe it's not the best thing for you guys to in a relationship, especially if he doesn't have his life on track. You're younger than him, it's not your job to be cleaning/taking care of his mess.
      A relationship has to be mutual give an take, from what I'm seeing it's setting up so that you're giving a lot more than him.

    • Ya you right, I understand what u mean

  • I would, but then again I need nothing from others. They are somehow surviving though.

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  • Guys don't really care near as much as chicks do about your financial situation.

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  • Age: Don't care.

    Financially unstable: Deal breaker

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What Girls Said 7

  • Nope. Too old.

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  • It's hard because financial instability can really take a toll on the relationship. He could be a great guy but to be 45 and financially unstable is eh

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  • no. I don't care how much money he has, that's way too old.

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  • I wouldn't date someone who is 45.

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  • A good heart doesn't pay the bills

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  • No, that's too old for me

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  • If you like him go for it, money doesn't buy happiness :P

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