I am a senior in college. About two years ago, I had my first class with Mike. It was an instant crush situation. We did a lot of class projects together and started to get to know eachother more. This semester, we became really good friends. We spent a lot of time together inside and outside of our classes. I started dating my current boyfriend Jessie. Mike and I became close friends and the whole crush situation kinda ended. A month ago, Mike was trying to get my attention to hand me a paper in class. He put his hand on my shoulder but, didn't tap. He just let it there. I looked back and he looked me straight in the eye. I felt so uncomfortable. After that, he always lingered when he touced me. He offered to take me home a lot. He was really open to hanging out more. My boyfriend didn't like the situation and addressed it with me. I tole Mike what was going on and he was kinda like wow I knew that was coming. I told him that Jessie felt Mike had feelings for me. Mike didn't deny it. Instead he changed the subject. Now, I am kinda panicking. Feelings have came up for Mike but, it's more attraction. Plus, our conversations are usually about relatonships and/or sex troubles. I would never cheat and Mike is not the type of guy I would date... or even consider hooking up with. However, the butterflies when I see him says differently. I don't know how to handle this. I can't go up to Mike and say "I know you like me" or "do you like me?"
- He likes you, address the issue.Vote A
- He is just being friendly. Stop worrying.Vote B