First date, met on okcupid, we're meeting at a given coffee shop that's usually crowded, how do I find my date?

so I have a fist date with a guy I met on okcupid. We're meeting at a coffee shop that's usually crowded. Should I wait outside for my date, should I go inside and pick a table? please help

  • Do we meet outside then go in together?
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  • Do we find each other inside?
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seriously guys :(

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What Guys Said 5

  • Go inside. Make sure you open the door properly and walk with two feet. Breathe when you need oxygen and keep your eyes open, blinking occasionally.

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  • Take the lead and take the table and bom
    All done :)

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  • Just tell him what you're gonna be wearing and he should do the same. I wish you the best of luck

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  • either way tell each other what you are wearing. where you are going to be sitting/waiting

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  • the samrt move is to get there early and wait outside for them

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What Girls Said 4

  • I say you should meet at the door then go in together.

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  • Better meet outside maybe

    Have something to recognize each other.

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  • Either one works

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  • Go inside. When you get there, just send him a text like "hey, I'm here/heading inside" and he'll look out for you, or you'll spot him. Have fun!

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    • we didn't exchange numbers...

    • Oh, why not haha? Well same advice in any case. Go inside, look around to see if he's there. If not, grab a table, and look out for him. Arrive just on time is you want; more chance he's already there. A lot of guys tend to get there early.

    • *if you want

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