What are your biggest deal breakers?

So say you meet someone, and you really like them... until the pull one of the things you absolutely can not stand for an SO to do.

For me, I don't think I'm THAT picky about deal breakers, but I do have some such as these:
1) One of the biggest for me, oddly, is that if he tells me he loves me too quickly. If we've only been together a week or two, he doesn't love me, I don't love him, and so it's just weird.

2) Cheating, if he cheats on me, it's a deal breaker, I don't care what his excuse is

3) Not brushing his teeth, come on, if he isn't taking care of THAT at LEAST, what else does he not do?

4) Being too feminine, I know some girls like feminine men, I however, do not

5) Not only peeing on the toilet seat, but LEAVING it there, is a deal breaker

thats my top five, what are some of your deal breakers?


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What Guys Said 5

  • These aren't in order of severity:

    1.) Unladylike
    2.) Poor hygiene
    3.) Doesn't know how to talk
    4.) Doesn't want the same dynamic for the relationship
    5.) Well, I can't think of a 5th one, 1 and 4 have such broad wording it basically covers everything.

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  • if she behaves like a wild animal
    smokes
    does drugs
    doesn't maintain hygiene
    cheats

    that's about it

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  • You seem a little over possessive. or just a troll

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    • Nope, not a troll "over possessive" what?

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    • Honestly man, her list is pretty reasonable. And flaws for her is pissing on a toilet seat and leaving it there, how can that possibly be loved?

    • @Dakota_The_Rota
      THANK YOU.

  • Cheating is the main deal breaker.
    The hardcore feminist.

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  • smelly vaginaaaa

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What Girls Said 9

  • Cheating, lying, being obsessive, being cocky and I can't think of a 5th one right now lol.

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  • Jealousy/possessiveness/controlling
    Cheating
    Alcoholism or substance abuse problem
    Emotional fragility/overly sensitive nature

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  • I would agree with cheating/wanting an open relationship with multiple partners. Biggest deal breaker for me completely.

    If he doesn't take care of his hygiene, that would also be a problem. I dislike heavy drinkers and smokers too. Drinking in moderation is ok. If he treats me like he owns me, that would also be a problem.

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  • Sarcasm and cheapness

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  • 1. Tries to make me feel guilty all the time
    2. Takes everything too seriously

    And I can't think of anything else. XD

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  • Cheating, lying, and trying to manipulate me.

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  • -they smoke/do drugs
    -cheating
    -flirty with other girls

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  • 1: douche y to people in the service industry
    2:racisme
    3:bad tipper

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  • Spitting, poor hygiene and eating with his mouth open. See ya!

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