I recently reconnected with someone I hadn't seen in three years. We went on a date last night and it went well. Lots of kissing. In my general experience, I avoid having sex with someone until I'm confident neither of us are seeing other people. So maybe 4 or 5 dates in. But with this guy...the chemistry is so strong, it's really distracting! I can't even think about what I want. So I kinda feel like I have to sleep with him to figure out how I feel! But if I do that on date 2, can I pretty much forget about a relationship? I'm not sure if I want it with him, but it certainly is possible...We have a lot in common in addition to the chemistry.
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YESS, whilst girls are able to build emotional connectivity from sex.. Most guys pretty much stay the same after sex or really want to get out..
If he liked you, he'll still like you, not any more, but will still like you the same..
But if he wasn't sure, sex isn't gonna change his mind.. it might actually make him think less of you.. honestly.
Unless you're sure about how he feels, then sleep with him.. if you're not, it best to hold up.
I know a lot of people say guys will say anything to get laid, but the truth is most guys wont, they'll actually set their cards on the table but most girls will sleep with him to change his mind, if he doesnt, they blame it on im..
But if it just a booty call... then freak on...