As for me personally I've always been told growing up to pay for dates... though I never do. I just pay for myself and make the girl pay for herself.
Granted I will pay for her only if I'm in a relationship with her.
I would like both genders take on this stance and the opposite as well.
- You should pay for her or you're a cad!Vote A
- No, I agree with your stance.Vote B
- Women deserve free meals!!!Vote C
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I'd rather pay for myself, because I feel more independent then and don't have the awkward feeling that I owe him something. Buying something small like ice cream for €1 is sweet, but really pay for the movies or a restaurant, I'd rather do that myself. Sometimes I would pay for something small for the guy, so it's not all one-sided.1