We have everything in common and there is a spark. I see this leading into a relationship. The thing is, she is the type of girl who has done keg stands and some one night stands. She parties harder than I do and has more of a vulgar language than I. I am not against drinking, but I have standards and wouldn't do one night stands. Is it right for me to judge her character off of her past? I am looking for a wholesome girl who may last in a serious relationship, she has a ton of potential for this. But her past makes her come across as kind of trashy..
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I'm in different about this mainly because I'm a girl with a past. But I do judge others from their past or at least factor in some things for prospective so understandable.
At the same time the age 18-24, not saying her behavior is right or justified but it sounds like typical college behavior. Most college students have serious relationships and get married eventually. So I wouldn't rule her out completely.
If it worries you just talk about it..
I anything would was just say it's a phase.
I mean when I came to college, I didn't party for a year or drink, virgin, no random make outs. By age 19 second - third month into my 2nd year. I probably has drunk myself into 2 near hospitalization experiences, made out with nearly 10 guys and almost lost my virginty to some rando. I partied religiously and it wasn't a secret it was all over my social media, that was at 19. By age 21, partying is a rare occasion. I've had a total of 3 drinks this year, I was almost completely sober for age 20 and I haven't picked up any random guys since last year. I've managed to hang onto what's left of my virginity...
^^^ just a phase
Plus "she parties harder than you" ..
Implying that you do party
Are you really going to hold that against her...0