So my family is pressuring me and making me feel like crap because my boyfriend hasn't approached them yet to talk to them and get to know them. I explained this to my boyfriend and I also told my boyfriend and my family that I'm not comfortable enough with that yet anyways. I mean I want to know that we are going to be committed first before I bring him home to my parents. He understands and he's not so sure how he feels right now either about meeting my family and parents. I mean we love each other and all but I guess that's too big of a step right now for us. How do I put it nicely to my parents that I'm tired of them making me feel like shit about them not talking to him etc? I'm tired of it. They keep saying shit like "if he really cares about you he would talk to us" etc. (Mostly my mom) I know he loves and cares for me. He shows it on a daily basis. Please help give me advice I'm tired of the nagging and my mom and parents making me feel like complete shit.
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I keep getting in the same situation. Parents like this create kids who lie. I just don't tell them anything anymore. If they really trusted you were making the right decision, why do they have to pressure you into such things? No offence but it's bad parenting. Parents aren't there to force you into things, but to support you in what you do.2