Long story short: I dated this guy 3 years ago but I ended it because I wasn't ready to get into a relationship again after a break up. Now three years on we have started back up again. We have been dating for just over 2 months now and I told him when we started dating that I wanted to take things slow, which we have. But now I want to move things on and I guess define what this is: I want him to be my boyfriend.
I think he wants the same thing but he never pushes me to talk about my feelings: both of us suck at it. But do I wait for him to bring up that conversation or is he waiting for me to bring it up because of our past history and the fact that I said I want to take it slow?
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He may be holding back because you said you wanted to take it slow and he is respecting your feelings. He doesn't want to do anything to scare you away so he is waiting. . . and he may wait for a very long time. It is your responsibility to initiate this conversation. Please do it in person and not by texting!0