Do you feel weird when people compliment you?

Personally I think I have ugly duckling syndrom when I was young they used to call me ugly but now after my 20s girls seem to like me more and they compleiment me out of the blue. I feel weird and embarassed and I stay quiet or say "thanks" and leave it at that , people seem anoyed or think I'm stuck up but I'm really not. I just get really nervous sometimes get red in the face and its very uncomfortable for me. I tend to be really quiet to not call any atention but when we're in a group there's always this girl or gay guy hitting on me.

Have you had similar experience? and how do I get over this, or what should i tell these people?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Sometimes. It depends what they're complimenting me on.
    I have one aunt who tends to remind me all the time how 'uncute' I was when I was younger. She's fucking annoying.

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What Girls Said 5

  • Yeah, kinda, cause I know that I usually disagree but I still have to say thanks and then it sounds like I agree which I don't. 🙊 But I'm learning to like them compliments.

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  • I don't know exactly why but I always feel like people are just lying to me when they compliment me..

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  • Yes. One time I got complimented on my eyelashes (weird compliment in the first place) and I replied awkwardly by saying, "Thanks, I grew them myself.."

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  • i get happy

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  • Im the same way!!

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    • But sometimes I say something like okay in an angry way

    • I dont get angry THEY get angry and think I'm stuck up all I say is thanks

What Guys Said 2

  • I had the same experience when I was younger. You must come to accept the fact that you are attractive and then come to embrace it. It is a great way to boost your self esteem as well :P

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  • i feel like dat ----> \O/

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