I have been dating this guy for almost 4 months. Everything is going well except there is one problem, he is addicted to facebook. Anytime we go out, he has to post where we are. He has exes on his friend list who often comment on his posts and pictures and vice versa and some things just seem too flirty to me, like always commenting on certain females pictures, sometimes with pictures of himself. I have talked to him to let him know how I feel about it, but he claims its just facebook its just an outlet. I feel like certain things that females post on his page he should set boundaries and let them know he is now in a relationship and what is and what isn't respectful, and he should consider how certain things could be taken by me. I understand we have exes, I don't have feelings for any exes nor am I flirty with any. An ex is an ex for a reason, but being flirty with them is not acceptable when you are in a relationship with someone. I feel as though he is keeping doors open with certain females by behaving this way on facebook. Being flirty, inside jokes with them, smiley kissy faces. He says he loves me he's not seeing anyone esle, but his actions sometimes, I don't know. Behavior should change once in a relationship. Am I right to feel like respect is not being shown, or am I reading too much into things.
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I'm with you on this issue. When they became an ex, they should have been unfriended. I can only think of one compelling reason to keep an ex as a friend on Facebook, and that is to keep open the avenues of possibly reuniting. If you can't resolve this issue now, you need to drop him. Can you imagine being married to him and he still corresponds with exes on Facebook?1