I've been with him for a year and things were going ok. However the thing that's bothering me is his new job. It is the fact he's working late nights as a bar tender at a female strip club in the city. to be honest I want him to quit his job, it might sound selfish but I think its inappropriate for him to do that while he's in a relationship with me. I want to tell him how I feel but I'm kinda nervous because I don't want to upset him :(
I don't know I feel confused I need advice on what to do next? How can I make myself feel better?
The below options are my ideas on how to solve this...
- he should quit his job -he is in a relationship with you!!Vote A
- Maybe he should continue working thereVote B
- Leave himVote C
- OtherVote D
Most Helpful Girl
If ANYthing makes you feel uncomfortable you should learn to talk about it to make things better. Why be so scared of him getting angry? If he is this way, then that is your issue together, the fact you feel you can't express yourself without being snapped at. You need to talk in order for him to explain himself or to put your mind at ease, or else listen to how you feel so that he can take in to consideration what working there is doing to you. Love is about respect and communication makes things so much better. Whether it's this, or something else, you have to be comfortable to just find the timing to get things off your chest so you both can work things out. Who knows, he might tell you that things are ok and not to worry, or he'll consider getting another job because he might feel it's best to after hearing how it makes you feel. But you won't know unless you try. Good luck! :)0