Why is it that guys female friends expect them to treat them exactly the same as when they get into a relationship? Like come on of course a guy is going to put the feelings of his girlfriend before a girl that is just a friend. As adults when you get into a relationship you generally tend to look for the person you are spending the rest of your life with and they should come first. The reason I am posting about this is because my boyfriends one female friend always posts stupid statuses on fb saying when your guy friend disappears when he gets a girlfriend. Like she expects to be treated like the girlfriend and seen as much. Birch please
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It's not stupid. It's just called missing your best friend. I'm going through it right now. I know that I won't be treated the same as I used to be before my best friend got a girlfriend. Of course, even though taking that into consideration, I still have feelings. I miss my best friend a lot and it's not easy transitioning from him not having a girlfriend to him having a girlfriend. It hurts. Of course, posting it on FB isn't the smartest idea and I would certainly never do that, but cut the girl some slack.
I am very close with my best friend (obviously since he's my bff), and even though I know things have to change, i'm still just getting used to it. Now, if the girl isn't super close to the guy, then I understand, but seeing as how he's my best friend, then it's definitely a little different in my situation.0
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