Hey ladies and gentlemen. Living in a military town as a single guy is tough. I don't go for girls that are out of my league looks wise, but I do like for them to at least be cute and someone I'm attracted to. I've noticed girls matching me on Tinder that I find quite attractive, but plans never really materialize, I suspect because they have so many options here. I still want to have a sandbox to play in and get some experience, so should I intentionally go for girls that are kind of meh (who I'm not really attracted to), ie. date down? I feel like I would be disgenuine by doing so, but I'd like to get y'all's take because it's sparked internal conflict.
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If all you want is sex, you could do that (but make it clear to them that that is all you want). But if you're looking for a relationship, just go for it with people you find attractive. Also try to get an objective take on your own current attractiveness (although it is subjective).0