They've been dating for ~4 years (both in their early 20s), and I get along really well w/his girlfriend. We chitchat once in awhile & lately I noticed she keeps bringing up this same guy (who's not my brother). She claims she wants to set me up w/him but it sounds like she has a crush on him herself. He's her lab partner & she mentioned repeatedly that he's "the most attractive guy in her class", he's tall/handsome, sweet, funny, successful, etc. I even made a joke (to my friend) that it sounds like she wants him for herself. And yesterday, my brother came up to me & confided that he suspected something b/w her and her lab partner, because they started hanging out alone together recently & having study sessions alone together. Should I tell my brother that I think she may have a crush on her lab partner? Or should I stay out of it? Obviously I don't have any evidence she's cheating but it sounds like she may be going down that road?
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Sounds like he already has his suspicions. you only have the same thing, so you have nothing to add. Perhaps when he confided that he suspected something between them you should have said that you notice the same thing, but that opportunity has passed. So since you have nothing firm to add, don't even add anything.1