I've been lately seeing this too. So now... even if you're non-promiscuous and obviously want a girl or guy with those same values, suddenly it's an ''oh no, you should get over it'' or ''the past is the past''. BS
Isn't this also trying to shove your lifestyle down our throats? By doing that.. basically we would now have to lower our standards and compromise/settle? Last time I tried to state my views on this, came a whole bunch extremists with the ''we can do whatever we want to'' or ''it doesn't matter if someone screw 50+, it's all in the past''.
No, I don't want someone that slept around in the past because I'm not like that either. Is this even too much to ask?
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I don't think it is. My sister totally wants the same thing and it's what I want for her too.
I also think it's better that way because everyone I know (mostly girls) who were waiting until marriage but ended up with someone who didn't have those same values wound up being heartbroken because they got cheated on (myself included)
It's the same thing as saying I want to be with someone that believes and values what I do and no one seems to think there is anything wrong with that.
Sex is just to big of a part of society today. It sucks but that doesn't mean that you can't find someone with the same values as you, even if it takes a bit longer.2