Why dont the vast majority of women approach men more? Is it not cruel to then criticize them for their approach after you expected them to approach?
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I don't criticize as long as the guy's polite and not-creepy ("hey, tits, take it off" is an approach. NOT one I'll respond to positively. Another bad one is "I've been there for you, so you at least owe me a chance"). I'll also make the first move, on occasion. I usually don't approach because I tend not to be looking for guys in that way and because I'm pretty shy. That being said, my general attitude is "if you want something to happen and no one's otherwise involved, be an adult and go tell them, because few, if any, people are psychic". Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't; that's life.0